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		<title>The tension COVID-19 brings</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[I saw two posts after each other in my Facebook timeline; one laying out the stark reality of privilege during COVID-19, and the other claiming &#8220;It&#8217;s okay to grieve&#8230; [things like your cancelled trip or your baby shower]&#8221;. It&#8217;s a real tension: Acknowledging your privilege — because if you are reading this, you are probably [&#8230;]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I saw two posts after each other in my Facebook timeline; one laying out the stark reality of privilege during COVID-19, and the other claiming &#8220;It&#8217;s okay to grieve&#8230; <em>[things like your cancelled trip or your baby shower]&#8221;</em>.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s a real tension:</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bolder;">Acknowledging your privilege </span> — because if you are reading this, you are probably in the first group of the privilege post — hopefully doing all you can to leverage your position to help those with less than you,</p>
<p>and;</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bolder;">Giving yourself permission to feel the emotions you are feeling</span>: the anxiety, the grief, the loss of seemingly important and unimportant things (even if it as about something as &#8216;privileged&#8217; as not being able to celebrate your child&#8217;s first birthday with family because of lockdown).</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<blockquote>
<p style="text-align: center;">Burnout doesn&#8217;t happen because you are too busy.<br />
Burnout happens when you no longer feel like you have control.</p>
</blockquote>
<p>And if COVID-19 is stripping us of anything, it is the illusion of control.</p>
<p>So be gracious with others.<br />
And be gracious with yourself. As Hillary McBride so often says, be in your body &#8211; don&#8217;t deny it the right to speak.</p>
<p>But don&#8217;t let your body speak over the reality of the greater suffering this world is facing either.</p>
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